Ben's Video Jan 2008

Ben in a Box.1
46 sec - Jan 6, 2008
Description: Part 1 of 'Ben in a Box'. Fun with nana, , , and an empty toilet paper box!
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-4118713784881682811&pr=goog-sl
46 sec - Jan 6, 2008
Description: Part 2 of 'Ben in a Box'. Fun with nana, , , and an empty toilet paper box!
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=5830356574556993851&pr=goog-sl

dancing on Uncle Shamus

42 sec - Jan 5, 2008
Description: Ben 'disrespects' his L'uncla!
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=6088572366193036189&pr=goog-sl

deer in the backyard

53 sec - Jan 5, 2008
Description: New Year's Day 2008. Tommy and Glo capture this moment before Romeo scares them off.
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-6427762238768724554&pr=goog-sl

morning.audio.19_mos.AVI

21 sec - Jan 17, 2008
Description: Sunday morning around 7:30am. Too dark out to see anything, but you can hear Ben 'reading' his book and playing with his trains and cars, before we go in to get him for the morning.
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=8915592565041635958&pr=goog-sl

mama.AVI

1 min 30 sec - Jan 17, 2008
Description: Ben (19 mos) does a gravelly 'mama' and cracks us up!
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=346802802368331161&pr=goog-sl

Fireman_Jason.AVI

34 sec - Jan 17, 2008
Description: Fireman Jason visits the daycare and shares safety lessons. Ben is sitting on Kim's lap in the lower left corner.
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-1379742896253692819&pr=goog-sl

Ben's Video Dec. 2007

howling.AVI 46 sec - Dec 22, 2007 Sean and Ben
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=1222859217135194887&pr=goog-sl


Christmas_Stocking.AVI 31 sec - Dec 26, 2007
Description: Ben empties out his Chirstmas stocking . . . one piece at a time!
chttp://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=815984705157428381&pr=goog-sl

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-8027717633915616968&pr=goog-sl
Ben's New Room with Choo-Choo train set ,new_room.AVI 22 sec - Dec 26, 2007

Ben and Ah Gong discover the sounds of his new train table. Discovering.AVI 37 sec - Dec 26, 2007

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-5202966979719012517&pr=goog-sl

Train table 31 sec - Dec 26, 2007
Description: Ben and family plays with his 'big' Christmas prize!!
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-1154004260693793273&pr=goog-sl

AhGong and blocks 13 sec - Dec 26, 2007
Description: . . there's still a little kid in all of us at Chirstmas time!!
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=9140112479694441320&pr=goog-sl

piggy_bank_with_Joy.AVI 33 sec - Dec 27, 2007
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-3654492385363014899&pr=goog-sl

Presents.AVI 12 sec - Dec 27, 2007
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-4303991873565550389&pr=goog-sl


truck_and_trailer.AVI 1 min 35 sec - Dec 26, 2007
Description: Ben plays with daddy on Christmas eve day. The excitement of the holidays (and this truck with its trailer) is in the air!
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-2027396607732453007

up to the trains 29 sec - Dec 27, 2007
Description: Ben makes his way up to his new room on Christmas Day 2007.
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-250096946148080733&pr=goog-sl

Christmas present.2 17 sec - Dec 27, 2007 This is my present.
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=1900928581160924170&pr=goog-sl

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=8355307781253473828&pr=goog-sl 2008-02-29Snacks peanut butter and jam.

讓孩子懂得感恩

好家教，讓孩子懂得感恩
黃美湄（學前教育雜誌主筆）
讓心變柔軟，孩子就更堅強
▓如何引導學齡前的孩子感恩
從小的生活紀律和生活的鍛鍊很重要，baby階段就能跟著家中的儀式學習，從具體的動作、言語去感受；2歲掌握喜歡當小幫手的年紀，在舉手之勞中，讓孩子學到責任，不會對別人的付出與服務感到理所當然。例如：把衣服分類，自己收拾碗筷。
2、3歲開始能學習關心別人的喜好。孩子吃東西的時候，提醒孩子「爸爸也很喜歡喔！」或是炒菜時，不要只顧著準備孩子喜歡吃的菜餚，即使孩子不愛吃，也讓他知道，這是爺爺喜歡吃的。」好吃的東西，孩子埋頭吃完了，別跟他說：「不要讓姊姊知道。」而是「姊姊也很喜歡耶」，問問他怎麼辦。
中班以後的社會能力發展達到能瞭解別人的意圖，動機，例如：積木弄垮，知道對方是故意或不小心，雖然會哭和生氣，但學習接受別人的道歉，而道歉的人也學習體貼對方的感受。此外，中班的孩子也能學習看事情背後的原因與心意，看到對方的好。例如：阿媽來家裡玩，要挪出一個房間給阿媽住；如果孩子抱怨阿媽來我們就要擠在一起，這時就該引導孩子：「阿媽太想你，所以就來看你囉！」
▓如何引導上小學的孩子感恩
進入學校以後，孩子已經發展到具體運思期，能夠體認自己做什麼事，會產生什麼後果。例如：當上學爬不起來，或拖拖拉拉，爸爸送孩子上學要冒著飛車和自己遲到的危險。這時要讓孩子知道，上學是他自己的責任，應該要感激爸爸帶他，而不是理所當然享受一切。孩子學會感恩現在擁有的東西，才不會老覺得欠缺，不能滿足。
教導時機也很重要。在正向情緒之下才有學習效果，例如：孩子表現不好時（考試考不好，或做錯事），爸媽一面打罵孩子，一面訴說自己辛辛苦苦為了誰，這時，因為打罵帶來的是負向情緒，孩子也就無從體會爸媽的辛勞與付出，留下的多半是身上的痛、內心的憤怒、羞?#92;或不服。善用教導的情境還可效法國外常見的讓孩子跟到爸媽上班的場所參觀，這樣的過程，可以讓孩子具體看到爸媽上班時的行為，而不只是看著爸媽拎著筆記型電腦或工具箱出門，晚上又回家了。